Whenever I go to a new doctor, I always start with this...."Hello Doctor, It's nice to meet you. I need to say a few things first. Firstly, I'm not a big fan of doctors...I've had some horrible experiences, so this is what I need from you. I need a doctor who will treat me with respect; a doctor with a heart, who's kind, caring and compassionate. I need a doctor who'll speak to me in layman's terms and explain everthing to me so I understand exactly what's going on. I need a doctor who is a human being and doesn't think he's god. If you can give me that and your time, then let's continue. If not, I'll turn around and walk out the door." Generally, it catches them so off guard that they soften right up and are totally different than had I not said this.